There is a word for what you've been living through. Most people don't find it until they're already exhausted. This is the online school of Professor Jacquelyn Fargano, B.A., M.S., Ed.S. — built for the moment you start suspecting the word is narcissism, and you don't yet know what to do with that suspicion. Inside, structured courses help you recognize the pattern, recover from it, and rebuild the self it quietly eroded. You don't have to be certain to begin. You only have to be curious.

"I spent three years being told I was the problem. I read every book, took every quiz, tried every therapist — and still walked around feeling crazy. This course was the first place someone finally put language to what I was living through. Not hype. Not fluff. Just clarity, one lesson at a time."



- Sarah M.

The Narcissist and You

The six-module core course. Name the pattern, understand the cycle, rebuild the identity it eroded, and walk back into your life clear, grounded, and finally your own again.

Narcissist, Alcoholic & You

You've been asking yourself which one it is for years. This companion section untangles the two, so you stop blaming the bottle for what the person was doing underneath it.

Generational Narcissism

Sometimes the pattern was in the house long before he walked in. This companion section traces the family system that trained you to tolerate it — and shows you where it ends.

Hi, I’m Jacquelyn Fargano, B.A., M.S., Ed.S.

The Narcissist and You is a structured, education-based curriculum on narcissistic abuse — what it is, how it operates, and how to recover from it. The course draws on my academic background in human behavior, identity, and recovery, and is built for clarity rather than quick fixes. It offers what most resources on this subject don't: language for what happened, and a coherent framework for what comes next.

Academic Background

- B.S., Experimental Psychology -
- M.A., Cognitive Psychology -
- Ed.S., Educational Psychology -
- Certified Life Coach, CLCI (ICF Accredited) -

Start You


One course. Six modules. Plus two companion sections for the situations that don't fit a single label. Everything is included — no tiers, no upsells.

Master Class I - The Narcissist and You

The full course for anyone who's starting to suspect they aren't the problem.

The Narcissist and You

The Narcissist and You

$599

Master Class II - The Narcissist, The Alcoholic, and You

You've spent years asking yourself a question no one could answer cleanly: was it the drinking, or was it them? When the bottle came out, you knew what to expect. When it didn't, you still didn't feel safe — and you couldn't explain why. You held out hope that sobriety would bring back the person you fell in love with. Sometimes it did, briefly. Mostly it didn't. This Master Class is for anyone who has lived inside that confusion. It separates what alcohol explains from what it doesn't, names the patterns that stayed the same regardless of what was in the glass, and makes sense of why your body kept bonding to chaos and calling it love. You'll stop asking whether you should have stayed longer or tried harder. You'll stop measuring their behavior against a standard they were never going to meet. And you'll start trusting the part of you that always knew the difference.

The Narcissist and You

The Narcissist and You

$299

Master Class Section III - Generational Narcissism

You came here to recover from one relationship. Then a sentence landed wrong, or a memory surfaced, and you realized this didn't start with them. The over-functioning. The apologizing. The way you read a room before you read yourself. The guilt that arrives the second you put your own needs first. None of that began in adulthood. This Master Class is for anyone who is starting to see the family system underneath the relationship — the rules that were never spoken, the roles that were assigned before you could refuse them, the love that came with conditions you didn't know you were agreeing to. You won't be asked to blame anyone. You won't be told to cut everyone off. You'll be given the clarity to see what you inherited, the language to name what wasn't yours to carry, and the framework to decide — slowly, on your own terms — what ends with you and what you choose to build instead.

The Narcissist and You

The Narcissist and You

$399